Where do I start?
That's the question I asked myself when other mothers talked about introducing solids to their babies.
A first time, older mother, I recalled memories of semolina and my gag reflex kicked in.
I am (to me) a desperately fussy eater; I loathe: Mushrooms, Turnip, Parsnip, Courgettes, Aubergines, Custard, to name a few; including Semolina.
I Googled foods and found links to many pages and as I recall them I will share.
The public health nurse issued a booklet on what you could introduce when, a very minimalistic guideline but I always remembered him saying introduce fruit flavoured foods last; why?; he said "once babies taste sweet things, they refuse all other food". Ok so no fruit for my little Sam.
I noticed when he was three months old he was smacking his lips and drooling watching me eat. He stared at me with a look of want. Its the best way I can describe it. Two weeks later I gave in, yes 3.5 month old baby, 14 weeks, he got his first taste of food.
What did I give him?
A very watered down taste of an off the shelf brand of baby cereal, no wait for it; not baby rice but orange flavoured baby cereal! Rule no. 1 broken! I felt so guilty, I hadn't even told my husband I had given our first born a taste of food, fruit flavoured at that.
I did buy the plain baby rice flavoured cereal after that, (I had waited until he was 16 weeks before properly introducing the right measurements - not so watered down) and he refused it; I thought I was in trouble.
Sam was/is a Reflux baby. Even his formula was pre-thickened Enfamil A.R. and he was on Losec Mups 10mg a day and for really bad days ontop of these he had infant Gaviscon. I didn't realise these baby cereals were made with milk because all I added was cooled boiled water.
I needed to do more research. I found a Facebook page dedicated to parents of Reflux babies and it was here where they discussed what foods helped with Reflux and what triggered it. Some varied.
So it was time for Trial and Error.
My poor baby.